Diamonds πŸ’Ž are a Girls Best Friend : Capturing the meaning of the relationship between Mr Jeff Tobler β™₯ and our Cavalier Park

Tobes and Company

Tammy Tobler has taken the time to pen πŸ–Š her thoughts on her Late Husband Jeff and his relationship with the game of Softball. In addition to this, I will include my series of Tributes I wrote that December when we lost Jeff, way to soon.

That brings us to inviting people who were also touched by the connection between Jeff and their child or just Jeff himself to contribute a letter from their heart. When it comes to the list of things connected with Cavalier Park, its not just trees, lights, seating, bricks or scoreboards, its also the people.

Jeff Tobler led with his heart ❀, right until the very end. Both Tammy and I have words to describe how much he meant to soooooo many but there is always room for a few more.

Jeff Tobler : Gone but not Forgotten

Diamonds πŸ’Ž are a Girls Best Friend : 50 shades of Baseball ⚾️ turns its focus to Carroll County High School graduate πŸŽ“, Mr Kevin DeHaven !

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Photo Credit : Carroll News

The link above should take you to the story that our Friend, Allen Worrell wrote after Kevin DeHaven swapped his cleats and ball cap for a suit and tie when he became the Cavaliers Athletic Director.

The book πŸ“– being compiled will have three distinct sections. Cavalier Park – Cause and Effect, Page County Softball – Tradition never Graduates πŸŽ“ and 50 Shades of Baseball. While the first two parts are stand alone, the third one is a collection of shorter stories ( 50 all totaled) about my connection to America’s past time.

Baseball ⚾️ is all about passion and Love for the game and the story about Mr DeHaven is a great example. Going from playing throughout High School and then another four seasons divided across two College campuses before taking over the program at Bill Worrell Field.

Baseball is in your Blood, especially for those who experience it at as many different levels as DeHaven has over the years. The question here is after spending a lifetime in, on or around a Diamond πŸ’Ž, what would lead a Lifer to walk away from the game he loves for a ” Desk Job”?

Life is about opportunity and making the most of it whenever it presents itself. Yes, DeHaven was having a lasting impact on the Carroll County Baseball program but now he is using his skill set to try and have an impact on an entire school 🏫.

The position became available upon the retirement of Darrin Mathews and DeHaven accepting the new position meant Casey Burcham, Steve Combs and Adam Nester each took another step up the ladder.

DeHaven is as home grown as one can be and is flanked by a supportive Bride πŸ‘° and the couple have two children who wear the colors that Kevin protects.

The best part of the story is about how a love for the game and desire to get a College degree led DeHaven on a full circle πŸ”΅ path that benefits a large number of people on The Hill.

We will work together to connect the dots as well as share the memories that mean the most to the Man πŸ‘¨ that wakes up each day and tries to lead by example.

Degree from Bluefield, Masters from Radford University.

Diamonds πŸ’Ž are a Girls Best Friend : 50 Shades of Baseball ⚾️, this one includes Box Sets and the Commonwealth

The desire to complete a collection of something goes all the way back to the Bicentennial when a 13 year old Boy decided to try and gather all 50 7up cans they created as a salute to Uncle Sam.

I’m not sure if anyone else remembers this marketing plan or not but I should add that this chase would have been so much easier if I enjoyed 7up, even a smidgen.

If you managed to find all 50 states and stacked them in the correct manner, the back of the cans formed Uncle Sam ( seen above).

Front of Cans

A few years back I was working on a piece (story) that would be of interest to Chris Graham at the Augusta Free Press. I went on a fact finding mission that would include EVERY baseball ⚾️ facility that hosted either Summer League Baseball or Minor League Baseball.

Every time I felt that I found them all, someone would bring another group to my attention. It was a fun Loop to capture this particular Box Set and it will be one of my 50 Baseball stories for the Book πŸ“–..

In case you are wondering, yes there’s a North Carolina version of the story too!

Diamonds πŸ’Ž are a Girls Best Friend : Mr Brad Nester matches Mr Alvin Davidson in our efforts to correctly tell the Story of Cause and Effect !!!

Miss Utt, Miss Nester along with Coach Tobler and Coach Quesenberry.

When this effort to create this book started, there were a handful of folks that I knew I would have easy access to in hopes of getting the story told properly.

Darrin Mathews, Principal Thompson, Coach Nester, Allen Worrell,  Tammy Quesenberry were in for sure. Stephen Puckett is always willing to lend a hand βœ‹ and Travis Leath is another great Human Being so I felt great about covering the past five + years. But I knew that I had to have some good fortune to reach the level I had envisioned.

Cheyenne Strickland (Marinus) would fall into the category I used for quite some time – The Coolest Person that I have Never met. Getting a thumbs up from local Legend, Craig Worrell put a smile on my face and then some. Justin Quesenberry was a treat to trade stories with.

Another favorite Pic from Mr.Nester

Emily Cook and Hannah Bourne are getting their feet wet, both being a treat to deal with. Tiffanie Moore and Sydney Nester were both previous meets ( and impressive as the day is long).

But like any strong ball club, I still needed a 3-hole and clean-up hitters. God sent me Alvin Davidson, followed by Brad Nester. I needed a few other people who have the same amount of passion about 2015 and Cavalier Park as I do.

I will spend from now to September 13th gathering information about the Park and the 2015 team. So if you are reading this and fall into this category, please πŸ™ reach out across the next four weeks.

Diamonds πŸ’Ž are a Girls Best Friend : preserving the Memories created by the late Jeff Tobler is one of many goals for the telling of the story about Cavalier Park.

We are searching through the names of people that played a role in a story where a group of 15 young ladies and a Coaching staff teamed up to capture the first State Championship in the history of Carroll County High School 🏫.

To the casual observer, one might question why a person would go to such great lengths to document a story ? Give or take, this will go on for close to a year and I am happy to share my thoughts on the motivation behind the project.

One of them, front and center, is to preserve the Memory of Jeff Tobler and everything Tobes meant to this Community. Not just the Softball family but the Community as a whole.

There will be stories about how this facility came about, going from a Snow Fence and a Groundhog to the easy on the eyes πŸ‘€ Ballpark that stands just South of the Boulevard today. A large cast of characters will be included and I will do my best to do justice βš– to their stories but there will also be the story about how one Man gave so much to so many for so long.